I have to admit that I have often escaped such moments lately and most often I missed them very much. I missed in hidden because it’s usually hard for me to get used to myself, how to connect such moments with me in a positive way.
What happened in Galway reminded me that it is worth taking care of meeting with our friends, more.
https://bluetram.home.blog/2020/02/13/life-is-beautiful-because-of-the-people-we-meet
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Belief in soulmates keeps people out of our lives who we don’t believe are our soulmate
It’s nice to think that there are people out there who are meant to be in our lives, but bogging down our mind with the belief that we have a soulmate waiting for us, and that we haven’t found them yet, or that we found them and we are about to lose them, is not healthy. It detracts from who we are, what we are capable of, and what we do on a daily basis.
Moreover, it keeps people out of our lives who we don’t believe are our soulmates. We push them aside as we focus on the people that ‘really matter’, and that causes us to lose out on some relationships that can benefit our lives in an amazing way.
https://nevertrusttheperfectblog.art.blog/2020/02/07/are-soul-mates-a-real-thing
Letting go of the need to prove anything requires a huge amount of trust
Keywords: Business Development, Personal Development
And Trust is not something you have or give once you have all the data to prove you are right, it is something you do without any certainty which is why it is often hard.
https://evanbernache.com/2020/02/06/letting-go-of-the-need-to-prove-anything
It is hard to find other parents with similar parental philosophies or interests
When you make your friendship all about the kids, you can quickly figure out whether this mama has similar or far different parenting styles than you. In a perfect world she would have a similar philosophy OR you could both live side-by-side being best friends with opposing parenting styles. BUT, this is unlikely. We are human and it is human nature to judge whether we like it or not. Even if we try our very best, we are most likely going to judge our mama friends on ways they handle their children at some point or another. This can be a big turn off for strengthening a relationship.
The same goes for interests… Maybe your idea of a perfect get away would be to get out and drink some wine at a nice restaurant but this mama you met at the park wants to go out clubbing. Definitely different ideas of what would be a fun night away from the kids.
https://multitaskingmotherhood.wordpress.com/2020/02/06/in-search-of-mom-friends-why-it-is-difficult-and-how-to-do-it
My Love/Hate Relationship With Blogging
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