Hello Happy, Meet Challenging!

This blog post will deal with dealing with people. I have another blog which also deals with a similar topic ( fuckwith.news.blog ), but it is actually more focused on news and communications. Here, I want to (yet again [ see also “Hello Strangers“, from which the featured image is sourced ] ) make connections between people, to bring people who may not be aware of each other into contact with their different views, perspectives, opinions, and maybe even open up some “doors of perception” (which is, I believe, a quote book title from someone Aldous Huxley which apparently inspired the name for Jim Morrison’s band).

Today, I want to cite two blogs which posted closely related topics:

I wanted to share with you on how to cultivate happiness when blogging whether it’s towards others or yourself.

https://new-lune.com/2022/07/05/how-to-cultivate-happiness-when-blogging

My emotional state can swing wildly depending on the day. My go to instinct is to want to hole up and be alone to wallow in my bad mood, however I know I feel much better by talking about my pain and getting things done. That’s therefore a constant challenge I’m tackling.

https://sage-and-serendipity.com/2022/07/05/hello-again

In my opinion, “flow” is the stuff that happens (in the brain) when we start out with challenging and attempt to move towards happiness.

PS: Oh, I almost forgot! 😯 I also wanted to connect this with Mark Manson (see: “I believe mental health and self-improvement are not something for the few or the privileged, but rather they should be a right for anyone who has taken on the responsibility to improve themselves” [ https://funny.health.blog/2021/09/16/i-believe-mental-health-and-self-improvement-are-not-something-for-the-few-or-the-privileged-but-rather-they-should-be-a-right-for-anyone-who-has-taken-on-the-responsibility-to-improve-themselves ] — and of course I should add: “not only themselves, Mark, but also each other, too! 😉 )

It’s starting to bother me and maybe I’m just not around the right people

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I wish I could find a group of people I fit in but frankly I don’t think I’ve found the right group. You know its the kind of group you hang out with it, make plans, lift you up, have your back, and there to enjoy life. I just don’t know how to find the right group. And I wish someone would find me.

https://afriendorfoe.home.blog/2021/05/08/left-out

Do you ever wonder why you meet and connect with the people you meet?

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What draws you to people? Why do we seek out some people to be friends and not others? Is it nature? Nurture? In this current climate where we have limited interactions it makes me wonder what kind of people I’ve missed out on meeting. Maybe I could have met a person who could have become my best friend ever. Maybe the people that I am currently associating with now are the best that I hope to meet. As a freshman moving to a different country in a pandemic I’m sure I’m not alone in these thoughts. Television series based on teenage or young adult life show is that when you meet people, they are your friends, your group, rude or die. That is certainly not the case, friendship I would say is one of the more complicated relationships in life, they are the family that you can choose… so choose well

https://whydidyouenduphere.wordpress.com/2021/03/12/its-late-and-ive-not-been-here-in-a-while