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I get the upper hand to express freely. Paper is like a sponge absorbing every thought I throw with no judging, no misunderstanding, just reflecting and creating.
https://getbetter794931914.wordpress.com/2020/08/07/why-writing
Keywords: my journey , asian life , books , dance , hmong , introduction , kpop
This is a very rough introduction of myself. I’m mainly rambling, but I just wanted to share parts of myself to you guys. I won’t make anymore PERSONAL posts like this, but instead I’ll be going into more depth on a part of myself that I think many people could relate to!
https://kpopatmosphere.wordpress.com/2020/08/07/finally-introducing-myself
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I find the world of blogging like a candy box. When reading through various posts in the search section, you literally are spoilt for choice at the array of different topics and interesting content.
https://ladyds.org/2020/08/04/celebrating-my-followers
Keywords: blog post , zahrah shares , blog , blogger , blogging , experience , food , food blog , food blogging , new blog , opinion , recipes , share , sharing is caring , thoughts
Giving myself a space to let out some of my thoughts and experiences and sharing them publicly has allowed me to feel a sense of relief, like a weight off my shoulders. It has allowed me to connect with people who have shared my struggles, people I would never have spoken to otherwise. It has allowed me to feel less alone, less alienated, and less misunderstood. It has allowed me to feel validated. Most importantly, it has allowed me to turn such negative struggles into something much more positive.
https://zahrahtalks.wordpress.com/2020/08/01/zahrah-shares
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So many relationships operate in defense mode where each person is working to not offend or hurt the other person and will hide the reality of their experience from the other person while rationalizing it as protecting the other person. The trouble with this is that person A then loses the opportunity to know what’s going on internally in person B, thereby losing the opportunity for any real connection. When we hide our inner experience from people, we take away their ability to choose how to interact with us. In effect, we’re taking measures to control how they will interact with us. Control is what scared people do in relationship. So many of us have been deeply wounded in and through relationships and the temptation to stop pursuing connection is present for many humans. It seems easier to just give up. Thing is, if we’re wounded in relationship, it’s in relationship where we can be healed. Control is a relational tool that removes the agency of others in our relationships to mitigate risk. It’s an obstacle to overcome in the pursuit of living whole-heartedly. The opposite of control is trust.
https://theweirdochristian.wordpress.com/2020/07/23/what-does-bravery-have-to-do-with-connection
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